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justme | 2009-01-30 17:44:30 |
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If you are new to this subject, then pay careful attention in reading this article. You can have some common world wide terminology for types of lesbians.
Now you will be fully informed about lesbians in perfect way.
The world of lesbians is a woman to woman for love or sex. However, lesbians have different physical features and sexual orientations that shows their personality and predilections. This becomes clear if we see lesbians, Lesbian love and romance is as stronger and possessive as that between straight singles or couples.
The following word list of lesbian terms should make their lifestyle much obvious to people who does not know about lesbian sex or about amature Lesbian
Take a glance about lesbians. After knowing versatilities about lesbians you will be surprised. You will come to know about the types of lesbians. I do not think so that any article might have written as much as I have written about lesbians. I think this is one and only unique article about lesbian world. Some of the lesbians on website are very good-looking. They look like glamorous model.
Amazon: is a name for a physically strong lesbian woman.
Baby Dyke: A younger lesbian or someone who is just coming out of the closet.
Lesbian Beard: A "beard" is a person of the opposite sex who marries or dates a closeted lesbian to cover up their homosexuality. In the past, often lesbians married gay men so that both could "pass" as straight, either for work or for their families.
Boi: is a woman who is Biologically female, but has a boyish appearance. A boi may be lesbian identified or s/he may be trans identified.
Bulldyke: A very masculine lesbian or you can say physically muscular and stronger lesbian.
Butch or Stone Butch: A woman who adopts what would be considered mannish appearance or characteristics.
Crone: In lesbian environment, she is a wise older woman whose life experience demands that she should be treated with respect.
Diesel Dyke or Bulldaggers: is a very butch or manly lesbian and very aggressive.
Dyke: Another word for lesbian women. Usually is only used by people who are gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transsexual.
Femme Fatale: A sexually attractive female who is sexually very good-looking and has the killer looks.
Gold Star Lesbian: is a lesbian who has never slept with a man and, does not want to sleep with a man ever meant to say only want to keep relationship with women only.
Lipstick Lesbian: is a woman who loves other women, but also loves her dress and makeup and shoes. She tends to dress on the femmy side.
Lone Star Lesbian: is someone who has only had sex with one person in their life.
Pansexual: is someone who is attracted people of many genders.
Pillow Queen: is someone who likes to be on the receiving end of sex. She likes to be pleasured and not reciprocate. She wants culmination of sex.
Power Dyke: is a lesbian who has gained a position of top senior level among the LGBT community (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender). She could be the head of a non-profit agency, a politician or successful in business.
Boston Marriages: Many women, particularly those who were college educated, lived in long-term unions with other women. These relationships became known as Boston Marriages.
The usage of lesbian community words are among lesbians themselves or bisexual hot females and males and gays who understand lesbians as sexual encounters between them often take place. Wish you best of luck. Have nice time.
by: Jwaltz
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justme | 2009-01-30 17:43:40 |
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Lesbian dating is becoming more and more popular in open society. People are now open to the fact that women are in relationships with each other, and men just love it. Females that openly admit that they are gay are often popular with other members of their community, although this was not the case years ago. With lesbian relationships being the basis of most men’s fantasies it is no wonder that society has relaxed more to women being gay than men.
Some women are still against the idea though but they are of the minority. Figures show that there are a lot more supporters to the gay cause than there have ever been before. More women are know opening up to the fact that they think about or have actually had sexual contact with other women and it is a known fact that most women will think about it during their life. We are now in a very open and modern society so it is no wonder that these figures have been made public and are not shocking.
Lesbians showing affection to each other in public would be tolerated, but if a gay (men) couple were to do this they would be harassed. It is still sad to see that because there is more ‘nice’ exposure on the lesbian front men gay couples are still suffering bad media attention although there are some very famous men who have openly admitted being gay.
Today’s world has opened up new doors for lesbian couples (and gays). We live in a world where you can join in a civil partnership (a marriage) with your partner rather than ridiculed and made a fun of. This just goes to show that differences are being accepted and that no one should have to hide who they are, or what they are because they may not be accepted by the public eye. I say who cares what others think, be yourself.
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Tom | 2009-01-30 17:36:09 |
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Not all the Gay sites that now proliferate on the internet are well put together and you cannot always rely on them for a pleasant experience! Whilst all the Gay dating sites will clearly not be the same we should consider some basic requirements.
Gay dating sites differ in many aspects including the facilities they provide, the demographics they cater for, the way they allow contact between the members, membership fee, the option of matchmaking and many other aspects. You can choose the best Gay dating site for you by considering these areas to ensure that they meet your requirements.
If you are interested in meeting potential gay partners of a particular age, race or creed then you can look for those sites that have the selective search facility. Many of the sites simply put a list of other people looking for someone, which can create some problems in getting started. However, there are sites available through which you can search using pre-defined criteria. This kind of facility increases the efficiency of the whole process and generally these sorts of sites will attract more people and therefore increase the possibility of finding someone from those who register with them.
Another factor that is important when choosing when deciding which site to use is the nature of and extent to which contact is allowed between the members. Of course it entirely depends on how you want to deal with this issue. There are sites that strictly safeguard personal information like telephone numbers and addresses. However, there are sites that have the facility of private chat rooms that allow sharing of personal details when you feel comfortable doing so. Clearly choosing a site that allows intimate contact may work in your favour as well as against you. The restrictions placed on contact are put in place as a safety measure and it may sometimes restrict your access if you really want to make contact with a potential partner. You should carefully consider the different options available to you before you register yourself with a site to ensure that you are completely happy with the way the site operates.
There are others features that are equally important in choosing a Gay dating site. There can be hundreds if not thousands of profiles available on a gay dating site and it can be tiresome to work your way through them to find a match for yourself. However, some sites offer matchmaking facilities through which you get qualified gay prospects that match with your specific profile. This saves your time and you can get on with the business of meeting potential partners as soon as possible. It is important to analyze the kind of profiles that are displayed on a site before you register. It is important because some sites have pictures enticing you to join the site and then you find that none of the people really exist!
Most importantly, you will want to choose a gay dating site that is user friendly. Some sites are difficult to work with whereas some gay dating sites are smooth platforms which enable you to easily interact and chat with others. Additional features like dating tips and articles can increase the value of the site and many people (especially new users) prefer these kinds of sites. If the sites allow a trial period then using them before paying for it is preferable. For a perfect gay online dating experience it is essential to find a gay dating site that meets your needs!
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Tom | 2009-01-05 11:44:41 |
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For newcomers to the gay scene there can be a "Wow!" factor like no other. The scene has a lot going for it, and they can feel like the cats that got the cream. The intention of this article is to make sure that cream doesn't turn sour.
Along with all the excellence, the gay scene is notorious for illicit drugs, sexual promiscuity, and for ruining relationships. It is a place where it is all too easy to go just that one step further than you intended - a step that you may later regret. To enjoy the gay scene safely, here are just a few things you need to be fully aware of:
Predators:
There's no denying sex is fun and, providing you always insist on safer sex and are not too blown out of your mind to ensure that it happens that way, you can have a great time finding sexual partners on the scene. However, you will need to ensure that they are the ones that YOU want. And, if this is not for you and all you want to do is to enjoy the drink, the music, the dancing and have a chance to meet people socially - you do need to be aware that there are a few people out there that will stop at nothing to satisfy their desires.
There have always been predators, they are nothing new, but what is comparatively new are the cheap chemicals easily bought over the Internet that some of them now employ. No longer do they have to soft-soap you and buy you expensive drinks all night whilst still risking rejection at the end - now it can be just a few drinks, an additive, and an absolute certainty.
Very few victims of "date-rape drugs" will remember anything of the night, and ANYTHING could have happened to them. The next morning the subject easily believes that he just drank too much and probably had a good time. But unfortunately it doesn't end there. Many will suffer after effects of heart palpitations up to three days later - a terrifying experience. In 2004, taking one such victim to hospital, one who was convinced that he was about to die, I was informed that he was the twenty-second case they'd seen following the weekend. In some places spiking drinks is all too common an occurrence. The predator may see it as fun, but the victim is left to worry about what actually happened to him, with whom (others might have been involved), and whether safer sex was practised throughout. And he may well keep on worrying until the results of a subsequent HIV test prove (hopefully) negative.
It can't be said too often: Never take a drink from anyone you don't know, or can really trust, unless you've seen it poured. Never go back to a drink that you've left unattended. It takes but a split second to spike a drink - keep your drink in sight at all times.
Relationships:
The gay scene can be very hard on relationships, especially if you are frequently on it. As easy as it is for a relationship to start on the scene, it's just as easy for it to end there. In the happy-go-lucky atmosphere, and under the influence of alcohol (or something else), with the music, the lights and all those gorgeous people having a good time, often gyrating half-naked on the dance floor, and sometimes catching your's or your partner's eye, it can be all too easy for either one of you to see your prince out there. A mere look, a touch, a smile - even just a sniff of the poppers passing by - and your life may be about to change. It happens, such is life, and you do need to be prepared for it if you continue on the scene once in a serious relationship.
Some couples avoid the scene, perhaps only visiting it on special occasions once they are serious about each other. Others, knowing of the threat or actually appreciating it, decide on having an "open relationship" where both of them are allowed to sleep around providing they always come back to each other. And there are even other couples who are happy to jointly share each other's fantasies in a one-night three-some, or sometimes a more-some. All these kinds of relationships can work, and all of them can fail. If you are in a relationship and on the scene it can help if you get some ground rules that you are BOTH happy about set up with your partner.
Drugs:
A lot of gay people take a lot of drugs, and there's always a lot of drugs on the gay scene. For this reason any new to the market drugs usually appear in gay circles first. Be very careful if drugs are your scene - some like the Crystal Meths recently appearing in the UK (2005) can be very harmful.
If drugs are not your scene but you are tempted, then read up on them first (there's plenty of information on the Internet) and if you do decide to use them it is advisable to set yourself a level you are DETERMINED you will NEVER exceed. If you get into needles then you are already in trouble - seek help.
Some people can manage recreational drugs, hold down a good job and lead an otherwise normal life, but for others they can be the beginning of a downward spiral as they lose job after job. Be aware of your limitations and accept them.
With just a few precautions you'll find there's nothing like the gay scene for giving you a good time. Nothing comes even close. Respect its few rules and it'll respect you. Have fun!
This article has been written with UK laws in mind. Look out for other gay articles: Am I Gay?; Safer Sex is Much More Fun!; Gay, and Coming Out of the Closet.
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